Joining in Love and Relationships

Joining in Love and Relationships

Joining in love and relationships take effort to make it work. When a couple joins in love and relationship it starts out with sparks flying and gradually works up to slowness of passion. When the passion in a relationship slows, one or the other often feels that love is no long in existence in some cases. Thus, women often require attention slightly different than most men do, however men require attention to in order to feel that fleshly necessity called love.

Love nowadays is demeaning and is, grounded often on sexuality. When the sexuality weakens the couple often slows their expressions of attention, love and passion. Real love never dies. When a couple are in real love they will last for years, by communicating, respecting each other, trusting each other, caring for each other and so forth. Rarely will real love relationships base love on sex and slow the process of giving throughout the relationship.

Examples of real love are, illustrated in the Titanic experience. During the sinking of the ship, the men put down the emergency boats only allowing women and children aboard first. During the round up and at the final draw, one woman stood beside her husband and refused to board the boats without her husband accompany her. She stated in this instance that if her husband was going to die, then so was she. Some people find this gesture foolish; however, the woman stood beside her mind until death did them apart, one of the vows of marriage.

True love never ceases. When two people love each other, they will literally die for each other. If a bullet is flying in the direction of someone you love, true love will step in the way of that bullet, unselfishly. Unbelievers may think this is foolish; however, Jesus was a fine example that gave his life over for all humankind throughout the world, regardless of the person’s background in life.

When two people join in love and relationships (marriage), they are making a statement. The statement is that through love the two will fight through storms, love through sunny days, and stick by each other’s side until death claims their love. If adultery occurs throughout the arrangement, the disrespected party has the right to leave the relationship. Thus, if the partner is prone to committing sexual acts outside of the relationship, superficial love is often the case. Therefore, adulterous relationships are short lived.

Some relationships last even if adultery is involved when the disrespected mate decides to forgive. Still, throughout the relationship, trust must be re-earned or the relationship will not last. Often adultery leads to disrespect of the mate, lack of trust, failure in communication, and so forth. The disrespecting mate shows through the behaviors that he/she lacks the elements to love someone truly.

Some relationships are built on love/hate. When the two join in love and relationship, they soon learn that hate and love consumes their relationship. Abusive relationships are one of the examples of love/hate relationships, where one loves and the other hates. The relationships that act out of violence often lead to un-repairable harm and/or death. Therefore, superficial love often strings the two together backed with threats. The abusive partner often threatens to kill or harm someone closest to the mate, or else threatens to kill the mate if he/she leaves the relationship.

Superficial relationships may include couples joining to avoid loneliness. Often the two have failed to accept them self, and feel a sense of emptiness inside. The hole they are seeking to fill is often never filled, since the two in the relationship have not discovered them self. In other words, voids consume the relationship and overtime when/if one or the other finds them self, they may find they wasted time in an empty relationship built on threads instead of love and often the relationship will breakdown.

Before committing your self to a relationship, think long and hard about who you are and what you want out of life. Commitments are part of love and relationships that make any arrangement work.